"i felt ignored, unimportant, a nobody"

"i felt ignored, unimportant, a nobody..."

has anyone treated you such to give this kind of feeling?
a simple recognition, upraise or attention is one of what man needs...
why do some be selfish of it????

i had a bad time with my big brother at the afternoon of the 13th day of march 2008...
he's so insensitive!!! that made me hate him...

he told me to hurry up and prepare myself coz we're going somewhere together with our cousins...so, i hurriedly prepared..and when i'd finished, he hasn't prepared himself!!!..his things unpacked, and he hasn't showered!!!
who wouldn't be irritated with that!?...i didn't hide to him that i hated what he did, i even told it in his face!!..but he still hadn't done any!,,instead he just remained in front the computer!!!...grrrrrrr.,