is someone controlling you?

have you ever crossed in your life the situation wherein you dont want

to be controlled by someone but you cant do anything about it?

we, as humans have our own minds to decide into what we want and dont, right? but there are instances where we lack the strength to say, stand and fight for what we really want. i'm not talking about being a brat or something. what i want to portray is the deeper side of it that has an effect to man.

lets say being governed by martial law, you can think of being overruled by your boss in the office, even the practiced of arrange-marriages for others, or simply being manipulated about what course or work one should have...
you can think of something that you experienced yourself and you might think "isnt it absurd?" or "its unfair!"

we may encounter something like this in different situations but our goals are just to be heard, to be brave enough to stand for what we want and to act for the accomplishment of it.. in the end, what will matter is that we proved that in what we chose to do we succeed, and we fulfilled what we want.....^^,